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Sunday, October 28, 2012

Meet Baby Greyson

Fact:  Every baby is a miracle.  Getting pregnant is a miracle, having a baby grow and develop inside of you is a miracle, and birthing a baby is all very miraculous.  BUT my baby is on HuGE miracle, and this is why:

My mom had a really good point the other day that coming in to this world is really traumatic and going out of this world can be equally traumatic.  Unfortunately Greyson had quite the traumatic entrance in to this world.

His story starts a week before he was due when my doctor asked me if I was ok waiting for labor.  I told him that I definitely was, but that if I went a week over I would like to be induced due to risk factors as well as the risk of my mom leaving Rexburg without being able to see her grand baby since her flight was in a specific time frame.  He said that was fine and proceeded to schedule me for an induction on October 25th, just in case I needed it.

Four days later I was at my apartment and realized that I hadn't felt my baby move in awhile, so I did the drill.  I laid on my left side for 10 minutes...still not a whole lot.  Ate some sugar, no go.  Ate real food, I got a little movement but not a ton.  I said a little prayer and my answer was that he was ok, but that I should go to the doctor.  40 minutes later I was hooked up to a stress test and Baby S passed with flying colors.  While I was there though, I asked which doctor would be on call on my induction date.  They proceeded to explain that I would go in Wednesday night with one doctor and then they would start everything Thursday morning with a different doctor.  I definitely wasn't a fan of switching around doctors so I moved my date up one day so I could have the same doctor both days.  I came home and told Skyler that I felt like the answer to my prayers was that I needed to switch my date.

The next day at work, I had a lot of opinions thrown at me for some reason.  People telling me I should just wait for everything to come naturally, and others telling me to listen to my "motherly instincts."  Long story short, it had me really thinking about whether or not I had made the right decision to get induced...I got a phone call at about 4 o'clock that day from the hospital telling me they had over booked patients and that I needed to bump my date up one more day.  While this made me uneasy, I felt comfort and for some reason I knew that it was ok.

Two days later I was officially one day over so I had to have a full stress test and AFI? test?  not sure if that's what it's called but they test how much fluid is in your tummy.  He passed the stress test by the skin of his teeth and my AFI said that I was at a 12.8 which apparently is ok but lets just say, I was all skin and baby.

Three days later, I'm over my due date by 4 days and headed in to the hospital.  We got there at 8:00 pm and Greyson was born at 10:17......Ya, crazy right?  When I got there they hooked me up to a bunch of machines, one of which said that his heart beat was in the 180s and not dropping (babies should be about 150s).  They called my doctor and he insisted on coming straight up ( I should have known then what was to come).  He did an ultrasound and found that my placenta had basically given up.  It was calcified and deteriorating fast.  Baby had already had a bowel movement and basically was struggling to survive without a reserve tank that a placenta usually provides.  And to top it all of, my fluid level was a 4.  In the words of the doctor, " It's too dangerous for you to go in to labor whether natural or induced, your placenta and baby can't handle it.  We're going to have to do a c-section.  It's not an emergency but I'm not going to wait til the morning."

40 minutes later I was in the O.R.  After he had walked out of that patient room people immediately started swarming in like mad wasps.  I had the anesthesiologist at my left side describing the procedure and risk factors, who, while mid sentence, bolted out of the room only to return and advise me that I wouldn't be able to do a spinal tap because we didn't have time due to my Factor 5 blood condition.  That meant I was going all the way under.  I had a lab guy taking blood from my right arm, and I think there were a few nurses in the room bustling around like they had a purpose.

Next thing I knew, the room disappeared just like in the movies.  The first thing I heard was my baby and a nurse telling me that that was what I was hearing.  I don't remember a whole lot after that.  I know I got to hold him but I had a really hard time keeping my eyes open.  Later it was explained to me that when they went in to do the c-section they found the cord around his neck twice.  Because of this, he was unable to drop like babies typically do before labor which causes dilation and contractions.  Hence why I never dilated and why I never did or would have gone in to labor.  

My baby is my own miracle.  If my induction date hadn't been moved, we're not sure if he would have made it to my original date, but the odds don't look great.  Heavenly Father was looking out for us that day and I'm extremely grateful.  Now we  have our beautiful Greyson and we couldn't love him more:)

9 comments:

  1. I'm so glad everything worked out so well. He really is adorable. Thank goodness for good doctors and modern medicine. Love to your sweet little family. Can't wait to be neighbors!

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  2. Oh my heck your story is making me cry! That is so freaking scary. I'm so glad he's here now though! He's a handsome little babe!

    (Oh and if ya don't remember me-I grew up in Skylers home ward, and kevin and i are friends with Roy and Elliot)

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  3. Our stories are so similar its scary! My placenta did the same thing, Robby's cord was wrapped around his neck, and i went in to be induced and thats the only reason we found that out! However, I didn't have to go under, I cant imagine how that must have felt to wake up and have a baby! You are a brave girl! I am so glad Greyson got here okay and that you both are doing well! What a blessing!

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  4. Having Baby Greyson safely in the folds of his big loving family is such a blessing from our Father in heaven. We cherish you little man! Your Grandpa Jim has been making plans for rafting the Rogue River with you, and for having you help him with his Relays!! Oh yes, he's been telling me all about his plans for little "Cletus!", as we traveled the roads planning the Smoky Mountain Relay.
    You are blessed with wonderful parents and grandparents. Welcome to our world my new Little Man. Looking forward to holding you in my arms.
    Great Grandma Bonnie {Grami}

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  5. Sydney---
    With tears in my eyes and goosebumps on my arms, I just finished reading about Greyson's arrival. I think the reason for the tears and goosebumps is because it hit so close to home with the arrival of our "miracle baby", Erik, our first. Though there are some differences with our stories, there are many similarities.

    I woke up a week before my due date not feeling my baby move. I did all those things that ALWAYS made him move. NO movement. If you can be calmly panicked, that's what would describe me when I had an overwhelming feeling to GET TO THE HOSPITAL! Bren and I drove REALLY FAST the usual 20 minute drive, but only taking us 10 minutes to the hospital.

    We went to labor and delivery telling them I hadn't felt my baby move. To make a long story short, from the time we "checked in" at the L & D desk to the time of Erik's arrival, it was 11 minutes. Yes, ELEVEN minutes. When they hooked me up to the machines, my clothes still on, just lifting my shirt up to put the heart rate monitors on, Erik's heart rate was 40. Not 140. Just 40. At that point it was all a blur!! In about 20 seconds there were so many doctors and nurses in the room ripping my clothes off, putting a gown on, putting an IV in as they were running the hospital bed down the hallway to the OR, a catheter being put in while the bed was being run down the hallway and a mask being put on my face, and next thing I know I was knocked out and knew nothing for the next 2 hours what happened.

    Erik was born and the cord was NOT wrapped around his neck. The Dr.s said there was no "medical explanation" as to the heart rate of 40 and dropping to 28 by the time he was born. Our "miracle baby" as the Dr.s called him, his heart rate jump from 28 to 160 within the first minute of him being born. The Dr.s told us at the rate his heart rate was dropping, Erik wouldn't have lived for longer than 10 more minutes in the womb. TRULY A MIRACLE AND A BLESSING FROM HEAVENLY FATHER to have prompted us to not question a single thing and to just get to the hospital.

    Sorry to share my WHOLE story! Your story of Greyson just hit too close to home!

    I'm so grateful for YOUR miracle baby and the blessing of the Lord's hand in Greyson's delivery! Very traumatic for baby and the parents! We know!!!!!

    I'm SO VERY HAPPY for you guys! He is absolutely ADORABLE!!! Love his name! Excited for this next chapter in your lives!!!!

    Welcome to the world little Greyson!

    Hope all goes well for you, Sydney, as you recover from the c-section. They are not fun!

    CONGRATS Slyler and Sydney!!!!!

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    1. Oh my gosh!!! Haylee I just got huge goosebumps!!!! I had no idea you had such an experiencce. Wow! I guess we both know our babies are meant to be here:) Thanks so much for sharing your story!

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  6. I just got chills reading your birth story. I am soooo Happy Greyson made it and that he is a healthy boy. That is an adorable name by the way, I love it! I can't wait to meet the little guy. Love you Syd!!

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  7. Such a beautiful story! I am so glad all is well. We'd love to bring you dinner once your mama leaves (or while she's still here, whichever is better for you, lil mama). I'll have Levi talk to skyler. Congrats!

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  8. Oh my gosh Sydney, this is a very touching story. I had no idea all of this happened. I am so glad you and the baby are healthy and doing well! Congratulations!

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